Saturday, August 21, 2010

Eleven Hundred Torches

"Our eleven hundred torches burn as bright as the rising sun." ~Christie Brungardt

"Jana Lynne Mackey was the kind of woman that inspired others.  She inspired through her words, her song, her actions.  Jana was beautiful, intelligent and kind.  She was an advocate, a friend, a sister, a daughter.  Jana was the kind of woman that would never miss an opportunity to inspire you to create social change.  She was magnetic.  She was a bright spot in an ordinary day.  She was a hero.
Jana’s spirit glowed with the light of 1100 torches. 
It’s time to return the favor."
-excerpt from Jana's story on http://www.1100torches.org/janastory2.html

July 2, 2008 changed everything because on July 3, 2008, Jana was found dead at the hands of her boyfriend.  She may have died a victim of what she had fought so hard against,  but in her tragedy she has become an even brighter light to so many, bringing awareness of the epidemic nature of domestic violence. 

Recently I had the opportunity to share a personal tragedy of the same nature with Jana's mother, Christie Brungardt.  In the course of our conversation, she asked a very poignant question:  "How do we help everyone understand that violence against women is not only common, but prevalent. This equates to a societal public health/public safety issue - which means everyone. But how do we make it real for everyone?"

Answer: We keep working.  We keep trying, talking, sharing, encouraging, railing against the defeats and pushing forward. In that spirit, the new Mentoring Program at Fort Hays State University has selected "Jana's Call to Action" as the organization where The Leadership Brothers & Sisters of FHSU can do their part to help make a difference.  


Please take the time to visit http://www.1100torches.org/home.html
and learn more about Jana's story and what we can do now to make a difference in her memory- and that of all who have been lost to violence- by reaching out and doing positive, good, uplifting, and worthy acts within our community. 

Whatcha Readin'?

Summer was long and hot- begging to be filled with days by the beach or pool with a good book in hand.  The question at hand is this: what did you read this summer?  Did it have anything to do with Leadership?  I have been listening to John Maxwell and his Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, but the other day I picked up a new book by Tony Dungy, the famous coach.  The Mentor Leader.  It has debuted its second week out as #2 on the New York Times Bestseller List. 
Anyone who has read or heard of him knows he is a great leader and has amazing input on how to integrate leadership into your daily living.  This time he is really focusing on the idea that we are all mentors and leaders if we are either at all. 
What do you think about this idea? Can you be a leader without mentoring?  Can you mentor without leading?  I am quite eager to share his ideas with you here and look forward to covering how this ties into the new mentoring program at Fort Hays State. 

Here We Go!

The countdown is nearing the end.  Classes officially begin for fall 2010 in 2 days!  The good news is we are almost ready to launch the Mentoring Program- the great news is the passion and interest shown in the program! Kathy (Nordyke) tells me the staff at the briefing on the program really responded positively to it!  As a member of that group of students who helped to birth this idea, I have to tell you that this support from the staff is a huge pat on the back and encouragement that we are doing the right thing. 
  • The website is fully functional now and the interactive forms were so easy to fill out and submit.
  • The final revisions on the toolkit have been made and are in for publication on the website- the final step to being 100%!  
  • We have more requests for mentors than we have volunteers to fill- that is a fantastic problem to have.
  • The staff in the Leadership Department are up to speed and ready to roll with this program.
So now it is time to wrap up those last days of lounging in the sun and get your college brains back in gear.  I know I have been jealously guarding my final days of the summer break- but soon you will see me on here more often with more updates than you can imagine and we will rock this program all semester long.

*raising my glass of iced tea* Here is to the beginning of a great semester and HUGE success in the Mentoring Program at FHSU!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Time Flies When You Are Having Fun!

Can you believe the summer is almost over already? Neither can I. Time has flown away and I realized it is time to let you in on the secret we have been working on behind our closed office doors!

While you may think the last thing we want to do is sit at our computers when we can be laying by the pool, you are only part wrong. We are so passionate about this project that we eagerly take our laptops to the beach so that we can work on it and get a tan. (Okay, I may be the only one who can actually get to a beach since Kansas is a bit of a drive, but you get the drift!)

So much has been achieved by the Leadership Mentoring Team. Melanie Kich has been up til all hours of the night partying with website creation (now that is the kind of college party I am into! *grin*) You really should check it out. From interactive forms to team bios, it has it all!

Here is where you need to go: http://fhsuldrsmentoring.web.officelive.com/default.aspx

Kathy and I have been quite busy getting forms formatted and creating a toolkit for both mentors and mentees, as well as working on those little things that add up when you are starting a new project.

The best news of all is that even with the short deadline to begin August 23, 2010, we have done it! The team as a whole has been very active and together we have built a program to be proud of. Now it is time to share it with YOU!

Keep up with the blog as things really start to roll now. Don't forget to bookmark this blog as well as the facebook page and the website.

If you are considering mentoring, please let us know right away- we already have a wait list for mentees. If you wonder whether you are mentoring material give one of us a shout- or even better- check out the website- I promise I will help get a quiz for potential mentors on there if it isn't already ( I am serious when I say this team is cohesive, it is like our brains are linked and we are able to anticipate suggestions and ideas like you would not believe.)
Please come be a part of this amazing, fun, passion-filled experience. We would love to have you!